[Forwardport v0.5] Add support for k8s 1.28

[tomleb]

Issue: rancher/rancher#43728

Forwardports the following issue/PR: rancher/rancher#44018 (PR: #335)

Depends on rancher/rancher#43619

Problem

We want to support 1.28 k8s.

Solution

Bump relevant dependencies.

Note: sigs.k8s.io/cluster-api v1.5.5 conflicts with k8s.io/* 0.28. One option is to remove it entirely from webhook since we aren't using it anymore (since v2.7.7). 2.9 still imports cluster-api v1.5.0 indirectly because github.com/rancher/rancher/pkg/apis still imports that version.

The changes are:

• Upgraded controller-runtime to v0.15.3
• Upgraded github.com/rancher/rke to v1.5.7-rc2
• Upgraded lasso which supports 1.28
• Upgraded to wrangler v2 so that's why there is a LOT of files modified.
• Upgraded dynamiclistener to v0.5.0-rc2 because it contains 1.28 support + wrangler v2. Otherwise conflicts, can't compile. Here's the comparison of the previous version vs this one: rancher/dynamiclistener@v0.3.5...v0.5.0-rc2. Some non-trivial changes here, but it seemed okay to do in rancher/rancher so should be safe here.
• Upgrade the k8s dependencies to v0.28.6
• Bumped Go to 1.22

CheckList

• Tested a subset of integration tests from rancher/rancher